Hi Randy,
I remember I also had some problems using a 3V3 LCD.
Especially adjusting the contrast was very tricky.
So I decided to use a 5V type.
In the meantime I tried several displays and all worked well with the 3V5-logic of the lauchpad.
If you do not read from the LCD (R/W wired to GND), you only need six output pins and no input can endanger the MSP chip.
The 5V can be found at TP1 near the USB connector.
Just to be safe, you can insert a diode in the 5V line to lower the voltage by 0.7V.
All 5V displays run at 4.3V (4.3oh;-) and then a high level of 3.5V is more